REVIEW
Summertime is for adventure. At least I dream of that for my kids. My husband and I have talked more than once of the importance of kids having an opportunity to go play outside where they can roam freely, get into trouble and get out of it not necessarily under our watchful eye. My husband grew up on a farm and had lots of opportunities to explore his corner of the world on his own. He could create, imagine, travel to new world, be outside and never leave parents’ property. As a city girl, my adventures happened at a lakeside campground in Minnesota for one or two weeks a summer. Sure, I had family at the camp and the owners kept a watchful eye out for trouble, but for the most part no one bothered me, or scheduled me most of the vacation as long as I wasn’t too loud after bedtime and showed up for meals. With two of my kids under age 5, that kind of adventure is still limited for now, but I want them to have it … despite my fears of all the dangers out there waiting for them.
Magic or Not? by Edward Eager, is the story of four, sometimes five kids exploring their world. It is the story of adventure, of glory, of mistakes and, maybe of magic. It is just the kind of summer fling I hope my kids experience someday, with a small exception. Written in 1959, the adventures include regular hitchhiking in to town. I hope my kids don’t try that.
The kid’s encounters with grown-ups are what stuck out to me here. These kids may have gotten in scrapes, may have tried to believe in the power of ghosts and a wishing well to change the stars, but the adults in their community generally treated them with respect. They listened, honored and communicated with the children in a way that took them seriously instead of over protecting, down-talking or laughing off their escapades. In response, the children respected their boundaries, kept curfew and tried their hardest to help the people they met. That’s a powerful story and one that I don’t think can be told as well today.
READING FUN
The central figures in this story frequently debate whether all of the things happening to them are coincidence or magic? That central question doesn’t stop the fun, it doesn’t even cause many hard feelings among the protagonists, but it is a great opportunity to pose the same question at the dinner table. And, since each chapter is a bit of a different adventure involving usually kids and adults, reading this with an elementary age child offers an excellent opportunity to talk about different social situations, how conflicts are handled, or what other choices they might have made.
I have read more than once that some studies estimate that parents only spend about 20 minutes each day actually talking with their kids — in a conversation that doesn’t center around a command. “Do this …” “Don’t do that …” “What have I told you about …” I am pretty sure those days have happened in my house from time to time, and I am pretty sure I am poorer for it. We read part of Magic or Not? while driving on vacation this year. Reading and asking questions, just for the sake of know what my children think about something is a terrific joy to me. It not only teaches them to honor each other’s ideas, but it reminds me how beautiful they are, how sometimes different from me they are, and how much fun they will be to watch grow up. (When I am not worrying about who they might be riding around with.)
Magic or Not? by Edward Eager, 1959, cover illustrations by Quentin Blake, 1999, republished in 1990 and 1999, ISBN-0-15-202080-2.